Sobriety

Freedom isn't free

On the tradeoffs of sobriety.

Dec 19, 2024 •

I was fifteen when I noticed my dad didn’t order his usual beer with lunch.

Oct 6, 2024 •

It's just that this is my thing now

On the humility of pain.

Sep 18, 2024 •

How it's different now

Early sobriety, breakups, and the devastation of no more vices.

Sep 5, 2024 •

Where does all the love go?

Having panic attacks on the highway and such. Plus, register for "Teens and Their Phones...Help!" on Sept. 28

Aug 13, 2024

Will sobriety end my relationship?

One person gets sober, the other doesn't. Will the relationship last?

Jul 25, 2024 •

The Dig List: July 2024 (Dog Days Edition)

It's hot as hell. Here are some good things.

Jul 13, 2024 •

When your feelings come out sideways. Also, join me on Weds. March 27th.

Mar 25, 2024 •

Ask Me Anything v.1

Drop your Q's about sobriety, writing, publishing, life, cats, or whatever else until 5 pm today. Open to all subscribers.

Feb 28, 2024 •

The High School Feeling

AWP recap, chasing popularity, feeling like a fraud, and other fun stuff.

Feb 14, 2024 •

The Art of Hiding

A guest essay by Elissa Altman.

Feb 5, 2024 •

The Tipping Point

My answer to the question: what made you finally stop drinking for good?

Jan 22, 2024 •

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